Pegging 101: What You Need to Know
If you’ve heard the term "pegging" and wonder what the buzz is about, you’re in the right spot. It’s simply a sex act where a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap‑on. The appeal is simple – it flips the usual power dynamic and can bring new sensations for both partners.
Getting Started
The first step is honest conversation. Tell your partner why you’re curious, what you expect, and any limits you have. A clear talk prevents awkward moments later and builds trust. Pick a strap‑on that feels comfortable – many beginners start with a medium‑size, silicone dildo and a basic harness. You don’t need fancy gear; a well‑fitted harness and a smooth dildo work fine.
Preparation matters. A short bathroom break, a gentle shower, and a relaxed mindset set the tone. Use a high‑quality water‑based lubricant – anal play needs more lube than vaginal sex. Apply plenty, re‑apply as needed, and keep a bottle nearby.
Start slow. Let the receiving partner lie on their stomach or on their back with knees pulled up. The penetrator can begin with gentle teasing, using the dildo’s tip to explore. Once relaxation builds, the strap‑on can slide in gradually. Communication stays open: a simple “more,” “less,” or “stop” keeps everything safe.
Safety & Aftercare
Safety isn’t just about stopping if something hurts. Keep nails trimmed, wash both dildo and harness before and after use, and avoid sharing without proper cleaning. If you’re using a new strap‑on, test it on yourself first to check for any discomfort.
After the play, give the receiving partner time to recover. A warm towel, a gentle massage, or a few minutes of cuddling can make the experience feel caring rather than purely sexual. Talk about what felt good and what could be improved – this feedback loop makes future sessions smoother.
For couples in London, many erotic shops offer discreet strap‑on kits, and some spas even provide private rooms for anal play workshops. Checking reviews and asking staff politely can help you find a reliable source without drawing attention.
Finally, remember that pegging is about pleasure, not performance. There’s no right speed or depth; the goal is mutual enjoyment. If you’re nervous, try it with a small dildo first, then graduate to a strap‑on when confidence grows.
In short, successful pegging mixes open talk, good lube, slow pacing, and respectful aftercare. Follow these steps, stay aware of each other’s comfort, and you’ll turn curiosity into an exciting, shared experience.
